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Speaking and Events


Since 2006, Victoria has been dedicated to providing resources, support, and encouragement for police families. She speaks on police marriage throughout the country and abroad. She approaches all speaking opportunities with positivity, supporting the badge and the families behind the badge. Victoria’s presentations come from the trenches, both from her own marriage and the hundreds of officers and their spouses who share their struggles and triumphs. Those who’ve heard her speak say they come away inspired and encouraged, with new perspectives and tools to try.  Her warm and personal style has been likened to “having a cup of coffee one-on-one.” After she speaks, she prefers to spend time with the attendees through book signing opportunities and a listening ear.

Speaking can be tailored to fit your specific needs. To contact Victoria about a speaking engagement, please fill out the form on the contact page.

Check out our upcoming events and speaking engagements below.

Below are examples of places Victoria has been invited to speak.

  • Keynote, Back the Badge Conference, Chico, California
  • Guest Speaker, Philippine National Police
  • Backup Seminar, Elkhart Indiana
  • Family Panel Speaker, California Highway Patrol
  • Presenter, Fellowship of Christian Police Officers Conference, Indiana
  • Backup Seminar for Police Families United, New Hampshire
  • Guest Presenter, Alameda County Middle Management
  • Guest Speaker, San Diego LE Wives Association
  • Keynote, Partners for Life, Canmore, Canada
  • Presenter, New Officer Families, Lompoc Police Department
  • Regular Presenter, VOWS Retreat, Montana
  • Below 100 Training Guest Speaker, Castro Valley CHP
  • Guest Author, Badge Brides Book Club
  • Presenter, POST California
  • Keynote, New Officer Families, Sacramento Sheriff Department
  • Backup Seminar, Alameda County Peer Support
  • Keynote with Melissa Littles, Wives Behind the Badge Conference
  • Keynote with Kristi Neace, Backup Conference, Elkhart, Indiana
  • Keynote with Chief Newman, Christian Law Enforcement Officer Retreat, Maine
  • Guest Speaker, CODE 3 International Ministries, Chaplain Wives
  • Workshop for Chaplain Wives, International Conference of Police Chaplains
  • Presenter, New Family Welcome Night, Sacramento Police Department
  • Presenter with Chief Newman, RISE Conference, Virginia
  • Keynote, Police Wives of Utah Conference
  • Guest Speaker, Placer County Sheriff Spouses, Loomis, California

Events Calendar

January 27, 2018   Pig Bowl, Sacramento, CA

February 6-9, 2018 , Northwest Peer Support Conference, Clackamus County, Oregon Presenter 

March 2018  Interviews airing with Family Life Today

April 7, 2018 Law Enforcement Encouragement Night with Faith, Life, Hero. Belmont, CA, Guest Speaker

April 12, 2018 Family Panel. California Highway Patrol, Panelist

April 14, 2018 Blue Line Wives Conference.Modesto, California, Guest Speaker

May 10-15, 2018 Police Week with Chief, Washington DC 

June 4, 2018 – THIRTY YEARS, BABY!!! Chief and Victoria’s Anniversary. Not available for speaking 🙂

June 25-29, 2018   VOWS Retreat.  Montana, Presenter

Sept/Oct 2018 FCPO Canada Conference. Montreal, Canada, Keynote Speaker

October 5-9, 2018, IACP Conference with Chief. Orlando, FL

December 1, 2018 – 30 Year Reunion of CHP CTC III-88 with Chief. Location TBD


Check back often—we’re talking with several organizations about events this year, and hoping to set up our own conferences and seminars as well, starting with California. Possible locations: Washington, Idaho, Tennessee, Colorado, and Florida.