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Since 2006, Victoria has been dedicated to providing resources, support, and encouragement for police families. She speaks on police marriage throughout the country and abroad. She approaches all speaking opportunities with positivity, supporting the badge and the families behind the badge. Victoria’s presentations come from the trenches, both from her own marriage and the hundreds of officers and their spouses who share their struggles and triumphs. Those who’ve heard her speak say they come away inspired and encouraged, with new perspectives and tools to try.  Her warm and personal style has been likened to “having a cup of coffee one-on-one.” After she speaks, she prefers to spend time with the attendees through book signing opportunities and a listening ear.

Speaking can be tailored to fit your specific needs. To contact Victoria about a speaking engagement, please fill out the form on the contact page.

Check out our upcoming events and speaking engagements below.

Below are examples of places Victoria has been invited to speak.

  • Keynote, Back the Badge Conference, Chico, California
  • Guest Speaker, Philippine National Police
  • Backup Seminar, Elkhart Indiana
  • Family Panel Speaker, California Highway Patrol
  • Presenter, Fellowship of Christian Police Officers Conference, Indiana
  • Backup Seminar for Police Families United, New Hampshire
  • Guest Presenter, Alameda County Middle Management
  • Guest Speaker, San Diego LE Wives Association
  • Keynote, Partners for Life, Canmore, Canada
  • Presenter, New Officer Families, Lompoc Police Department
  • Regular Presenter, VOWS Retreat, Montana
  • Below 100 Training Guest Speaker, Castro Valley CHP
  • Guest Author, Badge Brides Book Club
  • Presenter, POST California
  • Keynote, New Officer Families, Sacramento Sheriff Department
  • Backup Seminar, Alameda County Peer Support
  • Keynote with Melissa Littles, Wives Behind the Badge Conference
  • Keynote with Kristi Neace, Backup Conference, Elkhart, Indiana
  • Keynote with Chief Newman, Christian Law Enforcement Officer Retreat, Maine
  • Guest Speaker, CODE 3 International Ministries, Chaplain Wives
  • Workshop for Chaplain Wives, International Conference of Police Chaplains
  • Presenter, New Family Welcome Night, Sacramento Police Department
  • Presenter with Chief Newman, RISE Conference, Virginia
  • Keynote, Police Wives of Utah Conference
  • Guest Speaker, Placer County Sheriff Spouses, Loomis, California

2018-2019 Event Schedule

Campaign Begins in Northern California
November 9 Good Day Sacramento Interview
Victoria & Ann Marie Carrizales
November 9 How2LoveYourCop Inaugural Gala
Sacramento, CA
November 15 California Highway Patrol Family Panel
CHP Academy, West Sacramento, CA
(Victoria and Frances Siria)
November 15 McDonald’s Beacon of Blue Lighting
Elk Grove, CA
Law Enforcement Chaplaincy of Sacramento

Blue Mass and Blessing of the Badges
Cathedral of the Blessed Sacrament, Noon

November 28 Battle Behind the Badge Presentation
Sonoma State University, Rohnert Park, CA
Keynote, Q & A
December 1, 2018 30 Year Reunion of CHP CTC III-88
Reno, Nevada
January 12, 2019 Black & Blue Ball
Fundraiser for NorCal COPS
March 2, 2019 How2LoveYourCop Spouse Conference
Sacramento, California
March 6, 2019 Western States Sheriff’s Association
Reno, NV
May 2019 Police Week, Washington DC
June 10-14 2019 VOWS Retreat
Red Lodge, MT

H2LYC Members will be speaking at the Events in Bold Type, Victoria or otherwise noted.