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Since 2006, Victoria has been dedicated to providing resources, support, and encouragement for police families. She speaks on police marriage throughout the country and abroad. She approaches all speaking opportunities with positivity, supporting the badge and the families behind the badge. Victoria’s presentations come from the trenches, both from her own marriage and the hundreds of officers and their spouses who share their struggles and triumphs. Those who’ve heard her speak say they come away inspired and encouraged, with new perspectives and tools to try.  Her warm and personal style has been likened to “having a cup of coffee one-on-one.” After she speaks, she prefers to spend time with the attendees through book signing opportunities and a listening ear.

Speaking can be tailored to fit your specific needs. To contact Victoria about a speaking engagement, please fill out the form on the contact page.

Check out our upcoming events and speaking engagements below.

Below are examples of places Victoria has been invited to speak.

  • Keynote, Back the Badge Conference, Chico, California
  • Guest Speaker, Philippine National Police
  • Backup Seminar, Elkhart Indiana
  • Family Panel Speaker, California Highway Patrol
  • Presenter, Fellowship of Christian Police Officers Conference, Indiana
  • Backup Seminar for Police Families United, New Hampshire
  • Guest Presenter, Alameda County Middle Management
  • Guest Speaker, San Diego LE Wives Association
  • Keynote, Partners for Life, Canmore, Canada
  • Presenter, New Officer Families, Lompoc Police Department
  • Regular Presenter, VOWS Retreat, Montana
  • Below 100 Training Guest Speaker, Castro Valley CHP
  • Guest Author, Badge Brides Book Club
  • Presenter, POST California
  • Keynote, New Officer Families, Sacramento Sheriff Department
  • Backup Seminar, Alameda County Peer Support
  • Keynote with Melissa Littles, Wives Behind the Badge Conference
  • Keynote with Kristi Neace, Backup Conference, Elkhart, Indiana
  • Keynote with Chief Newman, Christian Law Enforcement Officer Retreat, Maine
  • Guest Speaker, CODE 3 International Ministries, Chaplain Wives
  • Workshop for Chaplain Wives, International Conference of Police Chaplains
  • Presenter, New Family Welcome Night, Sacramento Police Department
  • Presenter with Chief Newman, RISE Conference, Virginia
  • Keynote, Police Wives of Utah Conference
  • Guest Speaker, Placer County Sheriff Spouses, Loomis, California

2019 Event Schedule


October 11H2LOC Board MeetingOctober 21-23Billy Graham Evangelistic Association Law Enforcement Conference
Chief & Victoria attending
November 8H2LOC Board Meeting

April 12 H2LOC Board Meeting
April 29 California Sheriff’s Association Conference
Monterey, CA
Victoria presenting with Thrive 10-35 Janine D’Augustini
May 6-10 Proud Police Wife Virtual Conference
Victoria is presenting
May 10 H2LOC Board Meeting
May 11-18 Police Week, Washington DC
Victoria, Liz Brown
Vigil, COPS Conference, Networking, Memorial Service,Tent City visits
June 7 H2LOC Board Meeting
June 10-15 VOWS Retreat
Heidi Paulson, Victoria presenting
Near Red Lodge, MT
June 22 Vallejo PD Spouses (Tentative Date)
Liz Brown, Victoria presenting
July 12 H2LOC Board Meeting
August 9 H2LOC Board Meeting
August 11-13 Police Foundation Leadership Conference
Chicago, IL
Summer/Fall Release of Pure Evil: A Cop’s Story of Murder, Mayhem & the Aftermath
September 6 Home Watch 2019 SoCal
Fountain Valley, CA
Details Coming!
September 13 H2LOC Board Meeting
September 24 FBI Conference
Whitefish, MT
Victoria Presenting
October 11 H2LOC Board Meeting
October 21-23 Billy Graham Evangewlistic Association Law Enforcement Conference
Chief & Victoria attending
November 8 H2LOC Board Meeting
November 10 How2LoveOurCops Gala
Details Coming!
December 13 H2LOC Board Meeting

H2LYC Members will be speaking at the Events in Bold Type, Victoria or otherwise noted.