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Since 2006, Victoria has been dedicated to providing resources, support, and encouragement for police families. She speaks on police marriage throughout the country and abroad. She approaches all speaking opportunities with positivity, supporting the badge and the families behind the badge. Victoria’s presentations come from the trenches, both from her own marriage and the hundreds of officers and their spouses who share their struggles and triumphs. Those who’ve heard her speak say they come away inspired and encouraged, with new perspectives and tools to try.  Her warm and personal style has been likened to “having a cup of coffee one-on-one.” After she speaks, she prefers to spend time with the attendees through book signing opportunities and a listening ear.

Speaking can be tailored to fit your specific needs. To contact Victoria about a speaking engagement, please fill out the form on the contact page.

Below are examples of places Victoria has been invited to speak.

  • Keynote, Back the Badge Conference, Chico, California
  • Guest Speaker, Philippine National Police
  • Backup Seminar, Elkhart Indiana
  • Family Panel Speaker, California Highway Patrol
  • Presenter, Fellowship of Christian Police Officers Conference, Indiana
  • Backup Seminar for Police Families United, New Hampshire
  • Guest Presenter, Alameda County Middle Management
  • Guest Speaker, San Diego LE Wives Association
  • Keynote, Partners for Life, Canmore, Canada
  • Presenter, New Officer Families, Lompoc Police Department
  • Regular Presenter, VOWS Retreat, Montana
  • Below 100 Training Guest Speaker, Castro Valley CHP
  • Guest Author, Badge Brides Book Club
  • Presenter, POST California
  • Keynote, New Officer Families, Sacramento Sheriff Department
  • Backup Seminar, Alameda County Peer Support
  • Keynote with Melissa Littles, Wives Behind the Badge Conference
  • Keynote with Kristi Neace, Backup Conference, Elkhart, Indiana
  • Keynote with Chief Newman, Christian Law Enforcement Officer Retreat, Maine
  • Guest Speaker, CODE 3 International Ministries, Chaplain Wives
  • Workshop for Chaplain Wives, International Conference of Police Chaplains
  • Presenter, New Family Welcome Night, Sacramento Police Department
  • Presenter with Chief Newman, RISE Conference, Virginia
  • Keynote, Police Wives of Utah Conference
  • Guest Speaker, Placer County Sheriff Spouses, Loomis, California

Events Calendar

March 15, 2017
Words Off the Street, Podcast Interview

Spring 2017 (Date TBA)
Day of Support for Families of Law Enforcement of Wisconsin, Wisconsin Dells

May 12, 2017
RISE Law Enforcement Prayer Night, Presenter, Virginia

May 11-16, 2017 – Police Week with Chief, Washington DC
Honoring CHP Officer Nathan Taylor, Book Signing at NLEOMF Store and Tent City

June 2-3, 2017 Fresno Spousal Academy with Chief, Chaplain Jim Bontrager, Elkhart PD (Indiana)
Details Coming

June 15, 2017
California Highway Patrol Family Panel, Presenter

August 9, 2017
Family Life Interview with Dennis Rainey and Bob Lapine,  Little Rock, Arkansas

September 9-11, 2017  CAHP Softball Tournament
Las Vegas, Nevada

September 15, 2017
Wives on Duty Ministries Online Bible Study Launch with Book, A Marriage in Progress

September 21, 2017
California Highway Patrol Family Panel, Presenter

October 6, 2017
Breaching the Barricade/Backup on the Homefront Conferences 
with Chief Newman, Stacy & Martha Ettel, Elkhart, Indiana

October 7, 2017
Day of Law Enforcement Appreciation, Middlebury, Indiana

October 21-24, 2017
IACP Conference with Chief Newman, Philadelphia, PA

January 4, 2018
California Highway Patrol Family Panel, Presenter

Check back often—we’re talking with several organizations about events this year, and hoping to set up our own conferences and seminars as well, starting with California. Possible locations: Washington, Idaho, Tennessee, Colorado, and Florida.