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How To Love Your Cop
How To Love Your Cop

About How2


Welcome to How2LoveYourCop.com, where we strive to strengthen law enforcement families, one home at a time.

How2LoveYourCop provides positive resources that support not only the family, but the police career as well. We are led by a belief that when there is back-up at home, the officer is empowered to excel on duty. With nearly 30 years of hands-on experience in marriage, law enforcement community, mentoring, crisis assistance, and leadership, we are passionate about educating, networking, and investing in an area that is difficult, complex, and according to projections on divorce rates, failing.

How2LoveYourCop is led by Victoria Newman, but is not a one-person operation. She is assisted by an army of voices, volunteers, contractors, and prayer partners who come alongside to help create resources for law enforcement families.

We work alongside departments, peer support programs, associations, individuals, chaplaincies, counselors, peace officer and spouse organizations and faith-based ministries. We provide powerful perspectives, tried-and-true solutions, and collective wisdom to encourage, enrich, and empower law enforcement relationships.

Here are the specifics:

  • A CHiP on my Shoulder – How to Love Your Cop with Attitude.
    Written specifically for spouses
  •  A Marriage in Progress – Tactical Support for Law Enforcement Relationships.
    Written specifically to and for officers, but recommend reading as a couple
  • Backup for the Home
    Four- and eight-hour interactive seminar led by Victoria.
  • Event and Retreat Speaker
    Keynote and workshop formats tailored to what you need. Can be Victoria alone, or Victoria and Brent, spouse of nearly 30 years and Chief for the California Highway Patrol.