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How To Love Your Cop
How To Love Your Cop
Victoria M. Newman

Welcome to a place where I hope your heart is encouraged, you find resources to equip you for life and marriage, and you are further empowered to live into the circumstances and relationships you have chosen.

I believe in law enforcement.

Cops. Warriors for peace. Men and women who give their lives to serve and protect so that we can live, raise our children, love our neighbors, and dream about the future.

I believe in marriage.

Marriage can be difficult. Add a law enforcement career to the mix and the challenges multiply. Whether you are the LEO, or you are married to a LEO, everything I do is designed to help you be successful in your marriage. As the wife of a Chief in the California Highway Patrol for nearly 30 years, I have lived what you are living. The good. The bad. The very, very ugly.

I have hope.

And I want you to have hope too. It is my passion that our books and resources will indeed encourage, equip and empower you to be successful in your marriage.

Available Books by Victoria M. Newman

Victoria as a Speaker

Looking for a Speaker for your Upcoming Law Enforcement Event?

Victoria speaks to audiences of all sizes.

She's engaged round table discussions, been the keynote speaker in retreats and conferences, leads four- and eight hour seminars, and addresses departments, police leadership, and faith-based audiences as a law enforcement family advocate. She and her husband, a Chief with the California Highway Patrol also speak as a couple.

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Check Out Our Recent Blog Posts

Each post is designed to address attitudes, self-care, self-introspection, expanding perspectives, issues with children, and areas of interest to the law enforcement family.


How2LoveYourCop: A Facelift & The Future

How2LoveYourCop is nearing its fifth birthday! I’ve written three books (with two more on the way), visited 20 states and three countries, met and helped countless police families, and feel like I am just finding my stride! At this milestone, I’ve spent some time recently taking inventory of where we are as an organization, and […]

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Memorial Day (Repost from 2013)

Since this time last year (May 2012), I’ve been working on a book called Selfish Prayer. I am the ghostwriter, which means that I write another person’s story. That someone else is a member of the California National Guard, and served in Afghanistan in 2009 as a Medevac flight medic. It’s been quite an education. […]

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Confessions of an Author: A New Book in Town!

Fifteen months ago I stood on the bank of a rushing river, hesitant to jump in. This was a metaphoric river in my mind—knowing that once I jumped in, it would be one wild ride. I would be at the mercy of the river, letting it carry me wherever it led. I gathered some courage […]

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