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How To Love Your Cop
How To Love Your Cop
Victoria M. Newman

Welcome to a place where I hope your heart is encouraged, you find resources to equip you for life and marriage, and you are further empowered to live into the circumstances and relationships you have chosen.

I believe in law enforcement.

Cops. Warriors for peace. Men and women who give their lives to serve and protect so that we can live, raise our children, love our neighbors, and dream about the future.

I believe in marriage.

Marriage can be difficult. Add a law enforcement career to the mix and the challenges multiply. Whether you are the LEO, or you are married to a LEO, everything I do is designed to help you be successful in your marriage. As the wife of a Chief in the California Highway Patrol for nearly 30 years, I have lived what you are living. The good. The bad. The very, very ugly.

I have hope.

And I want you to have hope too. It is my passion that our books and resources will indeed encourage, equip and empower you to be successful in your marriage.

Available Books by Victoria M. Newman

Victoria as a Speaker

Looking for a Speaker for your Upcoming Law Enforcement Event?

Victoria speaks to audiences of all sizes.

She's engaged round table discussions, been the keynote speaker in retreats and conferences, leads four- and eight hour seminars, and addresses departments, police leadership, and faith-based audiences as a law enforcement family advocate. She and her husband, a Chief with the California Highway Patrol also speak as a couple.

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Check Out Our Recent Blog Posts

Each post is designed to address attitudes, self-care, self-introspection, expanding perspectives, issues with children, and areas of interest to the law enforcement family.


The Realization…

“This home is not a safe place for me.”   The words cut like a knife. They dove down into the deepest place of my motivation and pride, and locked in fear and pain.   Not a safe place? Our home, the place where I strove to create home and memories and talks and beauty […]

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A Time for Family

There are seasons in life where all else is put aside to concentrate on one thing. That one thing takes much time, most thoughts, focused efforts, and everything else becomes secondary. Like fighting a serious illness. A baby born. The aftermath and trial of a critical incident. Your wedding. Death of a loved one. A […]

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The Life Partner’s Role (Excerpt from A CHiP on my Shoulder, Third Edition)

As our officer’s closest relationship, we have an incredible opportunity as spouses, and responsibility. You and I know our officers intimately. We know how they think, and why they act the way they do. As life partners of an officer, we are our spouse’s backup. While we don’t grab a gun and drive CODE 3 […]

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